PG – Mom dad please don’t read this

That was a PG rating for mom and dad coz they both are quite a fan of my blog.

These weird thoughts just came to mind, dunno from where – what is this obsession men have with BBWs? Ok wikipedia would inform you BBW = Big Beautiful Women, but c’mon we all know what it actually is ‘big breasted women.’ So why do men have this obsession for big boobs. No that’s a serious question.

Somebody explain this to me. Isn’t it true that a fat women would by default have a considerably big size (for lack of more decent words). Does that mean this popular interest men have for big bs (what? What did I say?) is in effect an interest in fat girls?

But last I checked fat = ugly. One thing men say, and I know it as a matter of fact, is this, “Oh! I don’t like skinny women but they should have a decent figure, should not look unhealthy.”

Now question is what are the chances of a girl with decent figure having big bs? Will she have it naturally or would she have to get some silicon. Also when you get those siliocon does it function normally? As in can you breast feed a child?

Talking about this fetish look what I found, Boobpedia. Surprises me so much to see what all things are the people of this world engage in. I mean boobpedia of all things. And if you visit one of the orkut communities man is it enlightenment or is it enlightenment. From Incest to pedophiles ask what is not there. People narrating stories of how they got fucked by their parents or raped their sisters. I wonder is it all for real? Do people really have such bizarre fetishes?

Though I have a quite a liberal view on incestuous relationships. Sometime back we saw this play by Marathi play writer Vijay Tendulkar, ‘Silence! Court is in session.’ After the show I was discussing the play with my  friend. While talking about the protagonist he said, “well it’s not her fault. After all at 15 she didn’t know that it was wrong for her to fall in love with her maternal uncle. She didn’t even know what is an incestuous relationship.”

That’s one way to look at it and invoke sympathy for the protagonist. The other way to look at is to question who said incestuous relationship is bad. That is also is set by one of us no? It is society who set the rule. To this my friend said, “well it has been occassionally scientifically proven that incestuous relationship gives birth to unhealthy life.”

Is the only purpose of two people being in a relationship is to produce babies? Can’t their be any other purpose. If two people, in this context the protagonist and her maternal uncle, decide to be in an incestuous relation without posing any threat to their own life or any future life why should that be a problem for the society?

I kind of went off track. Well I never had a track. I was just writing what I was thinking. I was thinking atype. I guess after quite some time I am blogging just because I want to without worrying too much about the quality of the post or the size or whether it would attract enough traffic and shit like that. I am back to my innocent days of blogging when I didn’t have any readers and I used to write such long rants.

More such reckless posts are on the way… Meanwhile on ‘This is my mind’ I wrote about how it makes me happy to see Bush showing the middle finger to Narendra Modi.

21 thoughts on “PG – Mom dad please don’t read this

  1. Well I dont know if I should be writing about Big Breasts or Incest? Let me write about both. I somewhere read that big breasts are a sign that woman may be breast feeding or pregnant becuase breasts grow very big when a woman is lactating. It has got something to0 do with the sub consious becuase the 1st human contact that a man has is with his mother’s breasts. So the liking for big breats. I dont know how far is it true. But like big breats women also like big men, big chests, broad shoulders and offcourse a big capital D also :-P

    Coming to incest, the way they write in Orkut surely looks like some fetish but if it were normal then those writings would not have been fetishes but normal erotic discription of a couple copulating.

    The fact is every thing is normal if you consider it as normal. We set the rules and when majority follows then these rules become a guideline.

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  2. Snigdha@ things are not that simple – “The fact is every thing is normal if you consider it as normal. We set the rules and when majority follows then these rules become a guideline.”
    In case of close in breeding incest children have high
    risk of diseases. One
    receives one set of chromosomes from each parent and when the parents have
    similar genes, the recessive genes that are mutated or genes that represent
    bad qualities may be paired with the exact same gene, causing that trait to
    be evident.

    Without the taboo of incest avoidance in breeding would be rampant and that would ultimately destroy human race.

    Attraction could BBW could also inherent in human nature to reproduce better offspring (better nurishment!)
    Snigdha@ things are not that simple – “The fact is every thing is normal if you consider it as normal. We set the rules and when majority follows then these rules become a guideline.”
    In case of close in breeding incest children have high
    risk of diseases. One
    receives one set of chromosomes from each parent and when the parents have
    similar genes, the recessive genes that are mutated or genes that represent
    bad qualities may be paired with the exact same gene, causing that trait to
    be evident.

    Without the taboo of incest avoidance in breeding would be rampant and that would ultimately destroy human race.

    Attraction could BBW could also inherent in human nature to reproduce better offspring (better nurishment!):-D
    Snigdha@ things are not that simple – “The fact is every thing is normal if you consider it as normal. We set the rules and when majority follows then these rules become a guideline.”
    In case of close in breeding incest children have high
    risk of diseases. One
    receives one set of chromosomes from each parent and when the parents have
    similar genes, the recessive genes that are mutated or genes that represent
    bad qualities may be paired with the exact same gene, causing that trait to
    be evident.

    Without the taboo of incest avoidance in breeding would be rampant and that would ultimately destroy human race.

    Attraction for BBW could also inherent in human nature to reproduce better offspring (better nurishment!)

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  3. Dear Hoku,

    If you have read Sanjukta’s post clearly, we are not talking about babies here. Having a relatiosnhip is not equal to having babies. Isnt that simple? We can always try keeping it simple without bringing chromosomes and babies in the picture. How about that?

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  4. I was talking about that taboo and why the taboo exists. I wanted to convey that the taboo came out of social necessity of reducing the chance of inter breeding. Now, whether to go for incest (only sex), incest with babies is personal choice.

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  5. Hoku,

    You are right that is the reason why the taboo exist. “Sex is not meant for pleasure but for procreation” that is what we have been taught so far. But let’s not try to justify a taboo. No point talking about why the taboo. We should simply get rid of such taboos.

    whether to go for incest (only sex), incest with babies is personal choice.

    Exactly. So we should let poeple make that personal choice.

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  6. Where exactly we stop? What is the limit of personal choice and collective responsibility?
    I know soon I would be branded as Victorian Prude.
    I being a strong believer of collectivism think that society is the primary unit of reality and the ultimate standard of value, source of support and can provide the necessary strength in struggle for betterment of all. We do pay small price of obeying such taboos which keep the basis of collectivism intact (and I don’t thing it is such a big evil like cast, poverty and others, which require immediate attention).

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  7. guys she write these things just to get people coming in…..ive seen so many attention seekers….the funniest one was “to gulp or not to gulp”.

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  8. Regd. Big Br. woman… well in my opinion…

    Boys go crazy.. because may be .. those will intensify your desire while making love or having sex.. its as simple as that.

    Its just an intesifying factor that may differ from different ppl with different mindsets.. but majority ppl like Big B**bs… :P

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  9. Interestingly, I’m supposed to be a party of Mutiny.in. But then, I never got any responses to the e-mails that I sent to the editors there.

    Good to see you on my blog. I’ll add you to my blog roll!

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  10. me being well endowed on the upper part..and having been the object of interest for many ogglers…i can say this….i rather be voluptous than skinny…and regardign fat….well…i think if one is healthy and fit…its okay to have some fat…but when its really affecting health…one should cut down on the flab…

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  11. the saying about being fat and well endowed is not true. i am not fat at all. in fact i’m petite but i am top heavy and in excellent shape. the reality is that shorter women tend to have bigger ones while taller women tend to have smaller ones. also, women with bb tend to be lower on the socio-economic status since they usually cannot afford breast reductions. genetically men are attracted to bb for the usual reasons: bb = fertility and greater chance of progeny surviving. that is their natural preference. also flat chested women having breast implants is also an indicator.

    the one thing i don’t understand is how fashion magazines and the media have manipulated women to think that thin is in when the natural preference is the obvious. curves are the natural preference for men.

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  12. as question the big breast, i feel pobeech is genuinely correct and besides after thousands of years of evolution, men don’t even realise their reason for liking the breasts is linked to fertility. we have developed genetic codes which make us biased for big breasted women.

    and as far as incest is concerned, i think it is absolutely natural. though i do not mean to encourage it, but i genuinely feel it should be personal choice. and if the only reason people can find against it, is recessive genes becoming stronger. then i think incestuous breeding becomes even more logical. take a group of disease free, say scientists and ask them to mate together, through generations. after all if inbreeding brings the recessive genes to the fore, so does it help in retaining dominant genes. same for athletes or people from any profession. this is what is done even with domesticated animals like horses and sheep.

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  13. lol why would having a “decent figure” exclude being what you call “fat” ?
    And is there nothing inbetween slim and fat ?
    yes guys prefer slightly plump women
    go and live with it

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  14. Well, as a normal heterosecual old-school sort of male, let me say this………..at the end of the day it depends, yes, we will ogle at women with big boobs but will I go in for a relationship (long or short) based on just that? Absolutely not….and neither will most other guys, it’s the entire package that counts…..

    It’s the whole personality and the face that attracts me the most…By the way, I know of one guy who is abnormally attracted tor eally fat women (and I mean FAT- HUGE)….Everyone has their fetish, I guess…..for me, I am kinda attracted to women wearing glasses

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  15. Simple. People have the ability to desire things that have an aspect of goodness, even if they also lack other aspects (such as good health.)

    In the case of fat, and even very fat women, however, fat does not neccesarily equal ugly, no matter what society tells you, because of the many aspects of goodness that they possess, many of which (but not all) are possessed by fat men as well.

    1. Softness. When you’re in a war, you want somebody tough to back you up. The rest of the time, softness is more desirable.

    2. Warmth. Larger people are, on average, warmer as well.

    3. Femininity. The male mind is much more involved with the physical than with the emotional, and strongly recognizes the differences in shape between men and women; differences which become less pronounced as women become more fit (look at a female bodybuilder some time) and more pronounced as they gain weight. Even men look more feminine (such as developing breasts) when they gain weight.

    4. Need. Despite what modern feminist culture would have you believe, men are MUCH more strongly attracted to those who need (or who seem to need) their help. Because men think more of the physical than the emotional (see point 3,) they recognize physical need more that emotional ones, which is far more obvious if the person is fat or injured.

    However, ultimately, all of these are chump change. They’re not the real reason for the attraction. The real reason is this. There is someone who we are all meant to love; someone much bigger than us, and capable of giving us all tremendous pleasure and delight; someone who has all good traits that we can imagine, and no matter how hard we try, all we can do is seek out things that remind us of this person. This is the reason why one out of ten men (at least in America) admit to being attracted in this direction.

    People are not cookie cutter shapes, but we all have the same need; the need for good things to make us happy. Some of us just remember some of those good things more than others.

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  16. Well quite frankly we all love to see them , you know “see them” only.
    and for life partners that really doesnot matter.

    so as a matter of fact , we the males like to see them like we like beer !!
    does that offend you !! I was being frank !!

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